1 Corinthians 13:5
Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
Original Language Analysis
ζητεῖ
seeketh
G2212
ζητεῖ
seeketh
Strong's:
G2212
Word #:
4 of 12
to seek (literally or figuratively); specially, (by hebraism) to worship (god), or (in a bad sense) to plot (against life)
τὰ
G3588
τὰ
Strong's:
G3588
Word #:
5 of 12
the (sometimes to be supplied, at others omitted, in english idiom)
ἑαυτῆς
her own
G1438
ἑαυτῆς
her own
Strong's:
G1438
Word #:
6 of 12
(him- her-, it-, them-, my-, thy-, our-, your-)self (selves), etc
παροξύνεται
easily provoked
G3947
παροξύνεται
easily provoked
Strong's:
G3947
Word #:
8 of 12
to sharpen alongside, i.e., (figuratively) to exasperate
λογίζεται
thinketh
G3049
λογίζεται
thinketh
Strong's:
G3049
Word #:
10 of 12
to take an inventory, i.e., estimate (literally or figuratively)
Cross References
1 Corinthians 10:24Let no man seek his own, but every man another's wealth.Philippians 2:21For all seek their own, not the things which are Jesus Christ's.James 1:19Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:Philippians 4:8Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.Galatians 5:13For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another.1 Corinthians 12:25That there should be no schism in the body; but that the members should have the same care one for another.2 Corinthians 5:19To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation.1 Corinthians 11:18For first of all, when ye come together in the church, I hear that there be divisions among you; and I partly believe it.1 Corinthians 10:33Even as I please all men in all things, not seeking mine own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved.
Historical Context
Ancient Mediterranean culture was built on honor-shame dynamics and reciprocity—keeping careful accounts of slights, favors, and debts. Legal disputes (6:1-8), factions (1:10-13), and competition over status (4:8-13) all reflect this cultural obsession with personal rights and vindication. Paul's call to not 'think evil' (keep accounts) is a radical departure from both Greco-Roman and Jewish honor culture.
Questions for Reflection
- What mental 'ledger' of wrongs might you be keeping against family members, church members, or colleagues? How would love 'close the books'?
- How does 'seeking not her own' challenge American individualism and the cultural emphasis on personal rights and self-actualization?
- Why is 'not easily provoked' especially difficult in our age of social media outrage and cancel culture?
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Analysis & Commentary
Doth not behave itself unseemly (οὐκ ἀσχημονεῖ, ouk aschēmonei)—Aschēmoneō means to act dishonorably, rudely, or indecently (cf. 7:36). Love respects propriety and others' dignity, refusing to shame or disgrace. This contrasts with the Corinthians' shameful behavior at the Lord's Supper (11:20-22) and chaotic worship (14:23, 40).
Seeketh not her own (οὐ ζητεῖ τὰ ἑαυτῆς, ou zētei ta heautēs)—Love is fundamentally other-centered, the opposite of selfish ambition. Paul models this (10:24, 33) and commands it (Philippians 2:4). Christ supremely embodied it (Philippians 2:5-8). This demolishes Corinthian factionalism, litigation (6:1-8), and selfish use of Christian liberty (8:9-13).
Is not easily provoked (οὐ παροξύνεται, ou paroxunetai)—Literally "not sharpened" or irritated. The same verb describes Paul's spirit being "provoked" by Athenian idolatry (Acts 17:16) and the sharp disagreement between Paul and Barnabas (Acts 15:39). Love maintains composure under irritation, refusing to be baited into anger.
Thinketh no evil (οὐ λογίζεται τὸ κακόν, ou logizetai to kakon)—Logizomai is an accounting term meaning "to reckon, calculate, keep records." Love doesn't keep a mental ledger of wrongs for future use in arguments or revenge. This is the opposite of nursing grievances. As God doesn't count our sins against us when we're in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:19), so love forgives and forgets.